FACE READING AND FLIRTING BY SIMON BROWN
Flirting is our version of the mating call. Where other species might use song, colour or movement we tend to rely on flirting. Most flirting will take place through facial expression. Other options include words, touching and dance. It is interesting to think that during the millions of years of our evolution we have honed our flirting skills to try and ensure we have a suitable mate to produce children with. Flirting is ingrained into our DNA and our face becomes a key component of successful flirting.
I could argue that it is not so much how beautiful your face is but how you use it to flirt that will be most powerful in terms of attracting potential lovers. Although most of us know how to say the right things our faces may express more honest characteristics of the person inside. We often trust a face more than whatever he or she might say. This is important if the person is someone we might want to devote a lifetime to.
When flirting you would hopefully express the real you and emphasize whatever you consider to be your most endearing characteristics. There is no point training yourself to hold a stare if you are essentially a shy person who would appreciate someone who is sensitive and patient.
Here are some ways to flirt that would express yourself in terms of the five elements and make the most of your natural strength. Look at whichever five element you feel best applies to you.
Raising eyebrows to emphasize your enthusiasm to start a relationship. Eyebrow movement could also be used to attract attention to your eyes and when you want to add strength to your words. Letting your eyes look up when appropriate will send out a message of up, imaginative thinking. You could also use your hands to bring your potential lovers attention to your forehead.
Widening your eyes when you want to make a point or connect more strong can have a powerful effect on your date. This will send out a message that you are open to a more intimate relationship. You can also use your eye lashes to attract attention to your eyes. Sometimes blinking very slowly seduce someone into looking at your eyes more carefully.
To express more earth energy try a warm broad smile. This can convey acceptance and a caring nature. Looking down when appropriate will emphasize a more downward heart felt, tactile energy. You could use your hands to emphasis your lower cheeks and draw attention to softer parts of your face.
To emphasize this inward energy try holding your dates eye contact and even narrowing your eyes slightly when you want to make a strong point. Pursing your lips when appropriate will add to the feeling of more contained inner energy. You could rest your hands on your face seductively so that your finger tips highlight your cheek bones.
To flirt with an emphasis on water chi try tilting your head and looking at your date from a slight angle to emphasize your flexible nature. When making eye contact try to look deeply into your dates soul, especially if you are talking about a subject that brings out deep feelings. You could play with your ears when you want to bring attention to your vitality.
Written by Simon Brown Face Reader and Face Reading Expert London UK. Author of The Secrets of Face Reading